Every once in a while, something becomes so popular that it’s impossible to avoid. It’s everywhere—online, in stores, in conversations—and people genuinely love it.
And then there’s me, standing off to the side thinking… am I missing something?
This isn’t a critique. This isn’t a proclamation.
This is just a short list of things that are very hyped right now that, for me, didn’t quite live up to the buzz.
Stanley Cup tumblers
I understand the appeal. They’re sturdy, they come in pretty colors, and they apparently hold enough liquid to hydrate a small village.
What I don’t understand is how one cup became a lifestyle, a collection, and a personality trait.
Also, I’m going to need an entire cabinet just for tumblers, and I’m not prepared for that level of commitment.
Iced drinks… in winter
I see people walking around with iced coffee when it’s freezing outside, and I just have questions.
My hands are cold. My nose is cold. My spleen is cold. Why would my drink also be cold?
No judgment—I just don’t want my drinks matching the thermometer.
Apps for things we already know how to do
Drink water.
Breathe.
Stand up occasionally.
I appreciate the reminders, but at some point I start wondering who’s actually in charge here—me or my phone?
Walking pads under desks
I admire the ambition. Truly.
But the idea of walking, typing, thinking, and not face-planting all at once feels like a skill I was never meant to master.
I’ll just sit. Or walk. Separately. Like nature intended.
Filming normal daily life
Cooking dinner. Running errands. Folding laundry.
Somehow, these things are now social media content—and honestly, I’m impressed by the dedication.
I just don’t feel the need to document my trip to the post office for future generations.
Minimalist homes that look uninhabited
They’re beautiful. Calm. Serene.
They also look like no one actually lives there, owns things, or has ever relaxed on the sofa with a blanket.
I like a home that shows signs of life—maybe even a little cluttered evidence that humans exist. I mean, where do y'all put your stuff?!
Final thoughts
If you love any—or all—of these things, please carry on.
Truly. I’m not here to yuck anyone’s yum.
This is just me opting out of a few recent trends. What would you add to the list?
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I’m working on decluttering and trying to avoid these traps.
(Ie, I don’t need 10 or more mugs that I don’t use!)
I’m working on decluttering and trying to avoid these traps.
(Ie, I don’t need 10 or more mugs that I don’t use!)