Everyday Toxin-Free Swaps

Simple Swaps, Real Conversations, and a Side of Income

Simple Swaps, Real Conversations, and a Side of Income
If you had told me years ago that I’d be sharing about natural wellness products and mentoring others through it, I probably would’ve side-eyed you over my cup of tea.

I mean… I didn’t exactly plan on doing this. I just started using a few things from Young Living—swapped out some household cleaners, tried a supplement or two, added oils to my bedtime routine—and realized I felt better. Healthier. 

More me. 

So I kept ordering. Then I started telling people what I was using. Not to sell anything… just in a “this stuff is actually helping” kind of way.
And that’s really all sharing is.
No fancy business degree. No need to know every single ingredient in your toothpaste. You don’t even have to post about it if you don’t want to.
If you love the products, you’re already halfway there.


 From Oils to Everything Else; personal care, supplements, household cleaning

From Oils to Everything Else

When most people think of Young Living, they think essential oils. And yes, I use them every day. But the truth? The oils are just the beginning.

Most of my monthly orders these days are packed with simple swaps—supplements, personal care products, household basics. Toothpaste without fluoride. Laundry soap without synthetic fragrance. Multivitamins that don’t make my stomach flip. And of course that red juice you have probably heard me talking about. All of it has added up over time to a healthier home that feels less toxic and more intentional.

It’s not about perfection—it’s about progress. And once I saw that, I couldn’t not share it... and the timing is prefect right now because more and more people looking for healthier alternatives to the products they've been using.


 Different People, Different Paths

Different People, Different Paths


There’s no one “right” way to share. That’s one of the things I love most about this.

When I first started, I led a few classes. They were fun, but sometimes I think I scare people off because I have been known to dive too deeply into the science of it all. Interesting? Yes.
Overwhelming? Also yes.  

I’ve also done my share of vendor events over the years. They're fun and I enjoy the opportunity to see a lot of friends and meet a bunch of new people. 

But what feels most natural to me? Writing blogs, having real conversations, and just weaving these products into the way I already talk about wellness and everyday life.

Other people share exclusively on social media. Some never touch social at all. I’ve seen busy young moms post stories while doing dishes and college students make TikToks between classes. Empty-nesters approach it differently than someone in the middle of a demanding job or caregiving season. Most people just adapt their approach depending on what life looks like that month.

Bottom line? There are so many ways to share, and they can be as individualized as we are.




 Finding What Works... and sharing it

You Don’t Need to Know It All


You don’t need to memorize every product fact. You don’t need to wait until life feels perfectly balanced. And you definitely don’t need to know how to “do the business.”

You just need to authentically love the products—and want to help others. That’s it.

And you won’t be doing it alone. I’m here to help however I can—whether that’s brainstorming how to share in a way that feels comfortable for you, pointing you to helpful resources, or just cheering you on from the sidelines.





Want to Take a Look?


If you’ve been thinking about working more natural products into your home (and body!) and you're wondering if there’s a way to get your favorite things paid for—or maybe even earn some extra income—I’d love to show you how it works.


No pressure. Just a real conversation about what’s possible.

Curious? That’s all you need to be.
We can begin with a quick chat or you can read about the Brand Partner opportunity here first. It's up to you.










If you’ve made it to the bottom of this post, I’m guessing something here resonated—whether it’s navigating grief and growth, diving into natural wellness, or just trying to live a more intentional life in a fast-paced world.

This space is where I share what I’m learning (and unlearning), the tools that are helping me along the way, and the little things that bring joy, healing, and clarity—even on the hard days.


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✨ My blog exists because I know what it feels like to keep everything jumbled in your head — like a messy pile of clothes you can’t sort through.
 Writing it all down brings clarity, calm, and sometimes even healing answers I didn’t know I was looking for.

Honestly, that’s why I keep showing up to write — it helps me make sense of things. 

 Even if you have no intentions of ever publishing your work, I highly recommend writing stuff down. It doesn't have to be a literary masterpiece or even full, grammatically correct sentences... just dump those random thoughts onto paper... you'll see what I mean.

*This blog centers the GenX experience, simply because that’s the lens I live through—but anyone looking for connection, natural wellness, grief support, or a little real-talk in this messy stage of life is more than welcome.

✨ My blog exists because I know what it feels like to keep everything jumbled in your head — like a messy pile of clothes you can’t sort through.

 Writing it all down brings clarity, calm, and sometimes even healing answers I didn’t know I was looking for.


Honestly, that’s why I keep showing up to write — it helps me make sense of things. 

 Even if you have no intentions of ever publishing your work, I highly recommend writing stuff down. It doesn't have to be a literary masterpiece or even full, grammatically correct sentences... just dump those random thoughts onto paper... you'll see what I mean.

*This blog centers the GenX experience, simply because that’s the lens I live through—but anyone looking for connection, natural wellness, grief support, or a little real-talk in this messy stage of life is more than welcome.

Hi! I'm AJ Flanagan.

 
Hey there — I’m AJ.

I’m an empty-nester and a widow who had a wake-up call about the hidden toxins in everyday products most of us grew up using. Our parents didn’t know. We didn’t know either. But once you start paying attention, it’s hard to ignore.

Life shifted in 2018 when my husband, Eric, was diagnosed with leukemia — and again in 2023 when we faced a second cancer diagnosis. Supporting him through treatment changed how we looked at just about everything, including how we cared for our home, our bodies, and our day-to-day routines.
We didn’t aim for perfection or extremes. We focused on simple, meaningful changes — reducing toxic load in our home, choosing better ingredients, prioritizing nourishing food, and building calmer rhythms into daily life. Tools like aromatherapy, music, meditation, and intentional rest became part of how we coped and stayed grounded.

Caring for Eric deepened my commitment to living well — not as a trend, but as a way of showing up with intention and grace, even in the hard seasons.

Now I share our story, the lessons we learned, the small changes that made a big difference, and how I'm moving forward. My hope is to make wellness feel more approachable, less overwhelming, and rooted in real life — especially for anyone who wants healthier options without pressure or perfection.

If you’re here to find what actually works for you, you’re in the right place.

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