Self-Care Strategies

From Fracture to Function: My Liver’s Unexpected Role in Recovery

From Fracture to Function: My Liver’s Unexpected Role in Recovery
Two weeks after my wrist fracture was surgically repaired, I got my post‑op labs back—and honestly, I was expecting to see my bone markers doing a victory lap. Instead, my liver enzymes were flirting with the danger zone. 

Who knew that anesthesia, pain meds, and healing byproducts could turn your liver into the unsung hero (or unexpected overachiever) of recovery? It was my wake‑up call: healing isn’t just about bones knitting back together—it’s a full‑body production, and my liver deserves a standing ovation...
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Emotional Wellness for GenX: Overcoming Overwhelm and Finding Balance

Emotional Wellness for GenX: Overcoming Overwhelm and Finding Balance
Life often throws unexpected challenges our way, making it essential to prioritize emotional wellness. Navigating through trying times—such as losing a loved one or dealing with significant health issues in the family—highlights the importance of managing emotional stress effectively. For me, this journey has involved learning to acknowledge my emotions, focusing on self-care, and leaning on my support system.

Emotional wellness is about more than just an absence of stress; it requires proactive steps to maintain a positive mindset and balanced life. Simple self-care acts, like enjoying a quiet moment with a cup of tea or engaging in creative activities, can significantly impact our well-being. It's also crucial to set realistic expectations and seek professional help when necessary.

In future blogs, I plan to explore the role of essential oils and aromatherapy in enhancing emotional wellness, particularly their effect on the limbic system—the emotional center of our brain. Stay tuned as I delve into this subject and share practical applications of essential oils to support emotional health. Let's build a community that prioritizes mental well-being and learns to navigate life's chaos together.
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✨ My blog exists because I know what it feels like to keep everything jumbled in your head — like a messy pile of clothes you can’t sort through.

 Writing it all down brings clarity, calm, and sometimes even healing answers I didn’t know I was looking for.


Honestly, that’s why I keep showing up to write — it helps me make sense of things. 

 Even if you have no intentions of ever publishing your work, I highly recommend writing stuff down. It doesn't have to be a literary masterpiece or even full, grammatically correct sentences... just dump those random thoughts onto paper... you'll see what I mean.

*This blog centers the GenX experience, simply because that’s the lens I live through—but anyone looking for connection, natural wellness, grief support, or a little real-talk in this messy stage of life is more than welcome.

Hi! I'm AJ Flanagan.

 
Hey there — I’m AJ.

I’m an empty-nester and a widow who had a wake-up call about the hidden toxins in everyday products most of us grew up using. Our parents didn’t know. We didn’t know either. But once you start paying attention, it’s hard to ignore.

Life shifted in 2018 when my husband, Eric, was diagnosed with leukemia — and again in 2023 when we faced a second cancer diagnosis. Supporting him through treatment changed how we looked at just about everything, including how we cared for our home, our bodies, and our day-to-day routines.
We didn’t aim for perfection or extremes. We focused on simple, meaningful changes — reducing toxic load in our home, choosing better ingredients, prioritizing nourishing food, and building calmer rhythms into daily life. Tools like aromatherapy, music, meditation, and intentional rest became part of how we coped and stayed grounded.

Caring for Eric deepened my commitment to living well — not as a trend, but as a way of showing up with intention and grace, even in the hard seasons.

Now I share our story, the lessons we learned, the small changes that made a big difference, and how I'm moving forward. My hope is to make wellness feel more approachable, less overwhelming, and rooted in real life — especially for anyone who wants healthier options without pressure or perfection.

If you’re here to find what actually works for you, you’re in the right place.

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