Curating Life: Healing, Growing, and Finding What Works

Note to Self: Multitasking Isn’t the Flex You Think It Is

Note to Self: Multitasking Isn’t the Flex You Think It Is
The other day I sat down with my laptop to “finally get some things done.”

You know… it was going to be one of those very productive, get-my-life-together kind of mornings.

I opened my laptop with full intention to start on one project.

But before I could begin, my brain chimed in:
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My Calm Morning (Most Days): What’s Actually Working for Me

My Calm Morning (Most Days): What’s Actually Working for Me
I’m still under the covers. Eyes mostly closed. Brain not fully online yet. And I’ve got the Dwell app playing — daily Scripture and a short lesson.

It’s the easiest win of my whole day.
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10 Steps to Feeling Completely Overwhelmed (A Foolproof Plan)

10 Steps to Feeling Completely Overwhelmed (A Foolproof Plan)
If you’ve been sitting around thinking, “My life feels a little too peaceful lately,” let me help you fix that.

Because if there’s one thing I know about, it’s how to turn a completely normal day into a chaotic, overstimulated, slightly panicked experience — without even leaving my house.

So if you’re hoping to feel overwhelmed, scattered, and mildly annoyed at everything by 10:30 a.m., here are a few tried-and-true methods.

You’re welcome...
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The Wellness Choice That Fits My Calmer Pace This Year

The Wellness Choice That Fits My Calmer Pace This Year
Did you make a resolution for 2026?

Mine wasn’t dramatic.
No overhaul. No “new year, new me.”
Just this: Calmer.


That word has been quietly shaping my choices lately — not as an idea, but as a filter. How I schedule my days. How I care for my body. What I say yes to… and what I don’t.
I’m less interested in hustle for hustle's sake, and much more interested in steadiness.
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A Year of Calmer Steps: Choosing Peace Over Hustle

A Year of Calmer Steps: Choosing Peace Over Hustle
Somewhere along the line, “self-improvement” has started to look a lot like a hamster wheel with better lighting. Every podcast, ad, book, reel, and Pinterest quote is yelling at us to do more, be more, optimize more, and preferably before breakfast.

Meanwhile, a lot of us are just over here thinking,
“I’d settle for remembering why I walked into this room.”
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✨ My blog exists because I know what it feels like to keep everything jumbled in your head — like a messy pile of clothes you can’t sort through.

 Writing it all down brings clarity, calm, and sometimes even healing answers I didn’t know I was looking for.


Honestly, that’s why I keep showing up to write — it helps me make sense of things. 

 Even if you have no intentions of ever publishing your work, I highly recommend writing stuff down. It doesn't have to be a literary masterpiece or even full, grammatically correct sentences... just dump those random thoughts onto paper... you'll see what I mean.

Hi! I'm AJ Flanagan.

 
Hey there — I’m AJ.

I’m an empty-nester and a widow who had a wake-up call about the hidden toxins in everyday products most of us grew up using. Our parents didn’t know. We didn’t know either. But once you start paying attention, it’s hard to ignore.

Life shifted in 2018 when my husband, Eric, was diagnosed with leukemia — and again in 2023 when we faced a second cancer diagnosis. Supporting him through treatment changed how we looked at just about everything, including how we cared for our home, our bodies, and our day-to-day routines.
We didn’t aim for perfection or extremes. We focused on simple, meaningful changes — reducing toxic load in our home, choosing better ingredients, prioritizing nourishing food, and building calmer rhythms into daily life. Tools like aromatherapy, music, meditation, and intentional rest became part of how we coped and stayed grounded.

Caring for Eric deepened my commitment to living well — not as a trend, but as a way of showing up with intention and grace, even in the hard seasons.

Now I share our story, the lessons we learned, the small changes that made a big difference, and how I'm moving forward. My hope is to make wellness feel more approachable, less overwhelming, and rooted in real life — especially for anyone who wants healthier options without pressure or perfection.

If you’re here to find what actually works for you, you’re in the right place.

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