I've reached the stage of life where I don’t want ‘more’ — I want to be able to put something down without knocking over three other things.
That's it.
That's the dream.
So that’s my vibe for the year ahead: less juggling, less clutter (in my house and in my head), and a life that feels calm and doable. I’m not reinventing myself. I’m just quietly upgrading the operating system so everyday life runs a little smoother — ideally without random error messages.
And instead of resolutions, I’m going with a vibe. A default setting. Make things simpler when possible. I’m curating my life the way some people curate playlists: the annoying noise goes, the meaningful stuff stays. Even the random objects that migrated into my desk and cupboard drawers sometime around 2009 are officially being questioned. Kindly. But firmly. No squatters rights given.
And while I’m clearing out the extra “stuff,” I’m also hoping to gently declutter a few pounds — strictly in the name of comfort and feeling better in my own skin. Nothing extreme. No boot-camp energy. Just a nudge in the right direction. I’m going to be trying Young Living’s new Balance & Burn to help support that process and see if it gives me a little extra momentum. Metabolic support + weight loss is one of those areas where I’m extra picky. This new system is plant-powered, focused on balance, and actually aligns with how I approach supplements and everyday wellness... natural and simple.
This is not the year I become one of those minimalist people with three mix and match outfits and one fork. I like my things. I just don’t need them staging a coordinated takeover of every flat surface in my home.
I also don’t need to outrun anyone, impress anyone, or turn my life into a boot camp.
Movement? Yes. Pressure? Hard pass.
I’d just like my body to stop filing complaint forms every time I stand up.
Mostly, I’m making a bit of space — in my house, in my brain, and in my day. If I can think one thought at a time and set something down without triggering a landslide, we’re calling that success. If that sounds like your speed, you’re welcome to come along while I figure it out — messy, honest, sarcastic, and definitely not perfect.
If your theme is also "make life easier where you can," pull up a chair. We’ll keep it simple. We’ll keep it real. And yes, we’ll laugh about it — because otherwise… yeah, no, we’re just going to laugh.
If you’ve made it to the bottom of this post, I’m guessing something here resonated—whether it’s navigating grief and growth, diving into natural wellness, or just trying to live a more intentional life in a fast-paced world.
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You’re invited to join my newsletter, Finding What Works—a weekly-ish note from me with practical wellness tips, nostalgic nods for GenX souls, and honest reflections from someone who’s still figuring it all out (but loves sharing the good stuff along the way).
This isn’t about perfection or pressure. It’s about finding what supports us, what lights us up, and what brings us back to ourselves—together.
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✨ My blog exists because I know what it feels like to keep everything jumbled in your head — like a messy pile of clothes you can’t sort through.
Writing it all down brings clarity, calm, and sometimes even healing answers I didn’t know I was looking for.
Honestly, that’s why I keep showing up to write — it helps me make sense of things.
Even if you have no intentions of ever publishing your work, I highly recommend writing stuff down. It doesn't have to be a literary masterpiece or even full, grammatically correct sentences... just dump those random thoughts onto paper... you'll see what I mean.
*This blog centers the GenX experience, simply because that’s the lens I live through—but anyone looking for connection, natural wellness, grief support, or a little real-talk in this messy stage of life is more than welcome.
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