Curating Life, GenX Style*: Healing, Growth, and Finding What Works

Unseen Pitfalls: 8 Mistakes Empty Nesters Make Without Realizing It

Unseen Pitfalls: 8 Mistakes Empty Nesters Make Without Realizing It
Discover the eight common mistakes that Empty Nesters often make without realizing it in this insightful blog post. From overlooking self-care and neglecting relationships with their partners to ignoring financial planning and clinging to the past, Empty Nesters may find themselves navigating uncharted waters. However, by prioritizing self-care, nurturing relationships, reassessing financial situations, embracing the present, maintaining social connections, seeking healthier coping mechanisms, understanding their adult children's independence, and pursuing personal goals, Empty Nesters can make the most of this transformative phase. With mindful navigation, the empty nest phase can lead to personal growth, renewed relationships, and exciting new adventures.
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GenX Unmasked: 12 Things Nobody Tells You About Us

GenX Unmasked: 12 Things Nobody Tells You About Us
GenerationX, the often overlooked generation born between the '60s and '80s, has some secrets and quirks that rarely get the spotlight. From being the original "Latchkey Kids" to being pioneers in the tech world before it was cool, GenXers are not just sipping coffee and watching the world go by. Sandwiched between Baby Boomers and Millennials, GenXers have a tough and resourceful vibe. They are masters of DIY, career switchers, and have paved the way for a better work-life balance. They have weathered economic downturns and shaped the cultural landscape with their music, movies, and TV shows. GenXers are all about collecting experiences and have made a lasting impact on the world. Cheers to GenX!
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GenX Reflections: Rediscover Your Past with Journaling and Nostalgia

GenX Reflections: Rediscover Your Past with Journaling and Nostalgia
Embark on a nostalgic journey with us, reconnecting with the vibrant era of leg warmers, cassette tapes, and neon colors. Nostalgia, for us GenXers, is not just a fleeting sentiment; it's a comforting embrace of our past, a warm blanket made of cherished memories from the music, movies, and moments that decisively shaped our generation. This revival of past glories offers more than just a trip down memory lane; it's an opportunity to rediscover the magic embedded in our youth.

The power of nostalgia extends beyond mere reminiscence, proving to be a beneficial force for our mental health and overall well-being. Research indicates that diving into our nostalgic past can elevate our mood, enhance self-esteem, and imbue us with a sense of belonging and purpose. Unpacking these memories does more than just make us feel good—it activates the reward centers in our brain, releasing dopamine and serotonin, and furnishes us with valuable insights and a deeper appreciation for the journey we've tread.

Journaling serves as a potent conduit for this nostalgic exploration, enabling a profound self-reflection and personal growth journey. By engaging with my GenX Journaling Prompt Calendar, you'll be introduced to a collection of prompts that awaken those neon-tinted memories, spark creativity, and foster an enriching process of self-discovery. This journey through the highs and lows of the 80s and 90s not only evokes nostalgia but also underscores the therapeutic virtues of journaling, from stress management to enhancing clarity and focus. Embrace the unique heritage that molded you and embark on a journey to rediscover and consolidate your GenX identity through the power of journaling.
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From Flower Power to Neon Sunglasses: Empty Nesters Embrace Retro Vibes

From Flower Power to Neon Sunglasses: Empty Nesters Embrace Retro Vibes
Discover how GenX empty nesters are infusing their lives with the timeless lessons, energy, and iconic flair of the 60s, 70s, and 80s. From drawing inspiration from cultural revolutions to creating spaces that embrace the bold aesthetics of these decades, empty nesters are crafting a lifestyle that harmonizes the best aspects of each era. With playlists featuring hits from all three decades, they are connecting past memories with present experiences, adding a dynamic rhythm to their unique journey. This holistic approach to living encapsulates the freedom, creativity, and rebel spirit of the past, guiding empty nesters through the next chapter with a blend of nostalgia, diversity, and timeless coolness.
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Exposing the Hidden Oasis: Why I'm Spilling the Tea

Exposing the Hidden Oasis: Why I'm Spilling the Tea
In a world where the really good secrets can be as elusive as water in the desert, I've made it my mission to share the hidden oasis of natural living. Imagine holding back the knowledge of a life source – that's just not my style.

Synthetic chemicals might be the quick fixes of the times - beginning back when we GenXers were kids, but I've found a richer, more sustainable wellspring of well-being. Picture this as me leading you to the ultimate chill spot, where the air is fresh, and the vibes are all about a healthier, happier life.

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Join me on this journey of ditching the synthetic and embracing the natural. Let's cultivate a lifestyle that's not just about surviving but thriving. Cheers to a life filled with good vibes and the refreshing flow of well-being! 

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*This blog centers the GenX experience, simply because that’s the lens I live through—but anyone looking for connection, natural wellness, grief support, or a little real-talk in this messy stage of life is more than welcome.

Hi! I'm AJ Flanagan.

 
Hey there! I’m a GenX empty-nester - and recent widow - who had a wake-up call about the hidden toxins in everyday products we used growing up. Our parents didn’t know, and honestly, we were clueless too. But now, I’m all about sharing the details and helping others kick those sneaky chemicals to the curb for a healthier, happier life. 🌿

Life threw us a curveball in 2018 when my amazing husband, Eric, was diagnosed with leukemia. And then a second type of cancer in 2023.  Supporting him through his treatments was challenging, but it also inspired us to make some positive changes. We embraced holistic wellness practices, worked to transform our home into a toxin-free sanctuary, and incorporated relaxation techniques like meditation, music therapy, and aromatherapy into our daily routine.

Caring for and supporting Eric deepened my commitment to living well. From choosing natural products and prioritizing nutritious foods to finding strength in vulnerability, we built a daily routine focused on positivity and wellness. 

I’m passionate about sharing our story, the lessons we learned, and the simple steps we took to enhance our overall well-being.


Creating a Nurturing Space Together

We focused on creating a nurturing environment where both of us could thrive. It was a process of resilience, love, and continuous learning that I'm determined to carry forward from here. I’m eager to share our experiences, the lessons we picked up along the way, and the small changes that made a big difference in our lives. Whether you’re looking to make minor adjustments or dive into a complete wellness transformation, I hope our story can inspire and support you on your own path.

Here’s to embracing change, supporting each other, and living our best lives—together! ✨

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