Curating Life, GenX Style*: Healing, Growth, and Finding What Works

The Scrunchy Revolution: Balancing Natural Living with Modern Comforts,

The Scrunchy Revolution: Balancing Natural Living with Modern Comforts,
Embrace the "Scrunchy" lifestyle, a balance between the holistic, natural approach and the convenience of modern living, without feeling any guilt or pressure. This concept encourages making eco-friendly choices, like using reusable shopping bags and water bottles, and enjoying a diet that combines whole, natural foods with your favorite indulgences. It’s about adopting a mindful approach to living that suits your unique preferences and values.

Incorporating natural living practices, such as using essential oils for aromatherapy, while still enjoying modern comforts like air conditioning highlights the essence of being scrunchy. It's about progress, not perfection, in achieving a more sustainable lifestyle. Every small change, from choosing biodegradable cleaning products to reducing plastic waste, is a commendable step toward a better future.

Ultimately, living scrunchy means finding a personal balance that resonates with you, celebrating your progress toward a sustainable lifestyle, and enjoying the journey. It's a testament to living authentically, aligning with your values without conforming to a specific lifestyle mold. The scrunchy way of life invites you to bask in the unique blend of natural and modern living, making it your own.
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5 Joys of Being a GenXer: Why I Wouldn't Trade It for Anything

5 Joys of Being a GenXer: Why I Wouldn't Trade It for Anything
GenXers possess a unique blend of financial savvy thanks to their upbringing during economic fluctuations. This generation appreciates the importance of saving while understanding the joy of the occasional splurge, embodying a balanced approach to personal finance. This practical financial wisdom highlights their capability to navigate both prosperity and adversity with an informed perspective.

In an era where digital connections often surpass face-to-face interactions, GenerationX values authentic, real-world relationships. They cherish genuine conversations and understand the significance of connecting without the constant distraction of technology. This preference for quality time over digital engagement underscores their appreciation for meaningful interactions and solid friendships.

Furthermore, GenerationX showcases a commendable work ethic, a trait ingrained from an early age. Their willingness to diligently tackle tasks and embrace challenges with determination and integrity stands out in the modern workforce. This generation's blend of independence, technological adaptability, and unwavering authenticity makes them a uniquely resilient and versatile group, proud of their distinct place in the demographic spectrum.
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My Journey From 80s GenXer to Scrunchy Empty-Nester

My Journey From 80s GenXer to Scrunchy Empty-Nester
Step back in time to the radical 80s, where big hair and chemical-laden products reigned supreme. Little did we know the potential downside of these synthetically-infused choices. But now, as empty nesters, it's time to wake up to the environmental impact and health concerns associated with these products. We can make small changes that have a big impact, steering clear of chemicals and reaping the awesome benefits.

First, let's revamp our beauty regimen with natural alternatives. Ditch the chemical-infused beauty products and embrace coconut oil, tallow, and DIY face masks. No more decoding mysterious ingredients - just pure, simple goodness and healthier skin. Next, it's time to toss out the arsenal of harsh cleaning products and opt for eco-friendly, toxin-free options. Achieving a sparkling clean home without harmful fumes is now possible.

We can also transition to an organic wardrobe made from sustainable materials like cotton and bamboo. This shift not only feels good against the skin but also aligns with a sustainable lifestyle. Embracing a farm-to-table approach to eating involves choosing organic, locally-sourced produce whenever possible, resulting in a tastier, healthier menu that reduces exposure to pesticides. Lastly, let's swap synthetic fragrances for essential oils and embrace natural fibers in home decor to transform our living space into a sanctuary free from unnecessary chemical overload. This scrunchy empty nest lifestyle is all about small, intentional changes that lead to a cleaner, healthier, and more mindful way of life.
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Unseen Pitfalls: 8 Mistakes Empty Nesters Make Without Realizing It

Unseen Pitfalls: 8 Mistakes Empty Nesters Make Without Realizing It
Discover the eight common mistakes that Empty Nesters often make without realizing it in this insightful blog post. From overlooking self-care and neglecting relationships with their partners to ignoring financial planning and clinging to the past, Empty Nesters may find themselves navigating uncharted waters. However, by prioritizing self-care, nurturing relationships, reassessing financial situations, embracing the present, maintaining social connections, seeking healthier coping mechanisms, understanding their adult children's independence, and pursuing personal goals, Empty Nesters can make the most of this transformative phase. With mindful navigation, the empty nest phase can lead to personal growth, renewed relationships, and exciting new adventures.
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GenX Unmasked: 12 Things Nobody Tells You About Us

GenX Unmasked: 12 Things Nobody Tells You About Us
GenerationX, the often overlooked generation born between the '60s and '80s, has some secrets and quirks that rarely get the spotlight. From being the original "Latchkey Kids" to being pioneers in the tech world before it was cool, GenXers are not just sipping coffee and watching the world go by. Sandwiched between Baby Boomers and Millennials, GenXers have a tough and resourceful vibe. They are masters of DIY, career switchers, and have paved the way for a better work-life balance. They have weathered economic downturns and shaped the cultural landscape with their music, movies, and TV shows. GenXers are all about collecting experiences and have made a lasting impact on the world. Cheers to GenX!
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✨ My blog exists because I know what it feels like to keep everything jumbled in your head — like a messy pile of clothes you can’t sort through.

 Writing it all down brings clarity, calm, and sometimes even healing answers I didn’t know I was looking for.


Honestly, that’s why I keep showing up to write — it helps me make sense of things. 

 Even if you have no intentions of ever publishing your work, I highly recommend writing stuff down. It doesn't have to be a literary masterpiece or even full, grammatically correct sentences... just dump those random thoughts onto paper... you'll see what I mean.

*This blog centers the GenX experience, simply because that’s the lens I live through—but anyone looking for connection, natural wellness, grief support, or a little real-talk in this messy stage of life is more than welcome.

Hi! I'm AJ Flanagan.

 
Hey there! I’m a GenX empty-nester - and recent widow - who had a wake-up call about the hidden toxins in everyday products we used growing up. Our parents didn’t know, and honestly, we were clueless too. But now, I’m all about sharing the details and helping others kick those sneaky chemicals to the curb for a healthier, happier life. 🌿

Life threw us a curveball in 2018 when my amazing husband, Eric, was diagnosed with leukemia. And then a second type of cancer in 2023.  Supporting him through his treatments was challenging, but it also inspired us to make some positive changes. We embraced holistic wellness practices, worked to transform our home into a toxin-free sanctuary, and incorporated relaxation techniques like meditation, music therapy, and aromatherapy into our daily routine.

Caring for and supporting Eric deepened my commitment to living well. From choosing natural products and prioritizing nutritious foods to finding strength in vulnerability, we built a daily routine focused on positivity and wellness. 

I’m passionate about sharing our story, the lessons we learned, and the simple steps we took to enhance our overall well-being.


Creating a Nurturing Space Together

We focused on creating a nurturing environment where both of us could thrive. It was a process of resilience, love, and continuous learning that I'm determined to carry forward from here. I’m eager to share our experiences, the lessons we picked up along the way, and the small changes that made a big difference in our lives. Whether you’re looking to make minor adjustments or dive into a complete wellness transformation, I hope our story can inspire and support you on your own path.

Here’s to embracing change, supporting each other, and living our best lives—together! ✨

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